Nurturing a child involves a lot of tender love and care but, sometimes one needs to be extra thoughtful. A child’s mind is like the waves of the ocean, unpredictable and moving. The next time your child misbehaves or acts irrational, try these following tips to build a stronger relationship:
– Take a deep breath and give a thought to the reason behind your child’s behaviour. Has he ever behaved liked this before? Is he doing this as a response to something he has experienced?
– Sit down and have a talk with him. Ask him what he thinks of your behaviour and whether he thinks you expect a lot from him. Remember, a heart to heart talk goes a long way.
– If he is being very rebellious, give him time to relax and assure him that you’ll always be there. Let him come to you. No point arguing over his mood.
– When he comes to talk, don’t go emotional but, rather talk to him with logic, analysing the small changes of his tone and yours.
– Don’t criticise him with phrases like, “See, I told you so.” “You deserved that!” “You never listened to me.” Avoid them and encourage him to go on and speak his heart out.
– While he speaks, never lose eye contact. Be genuinely interested and avoid picking any calls then.
– And, when you think, he is open to receiving opinion, then offer it and try engaging him with personal examples from your time or a movie/book example.
– Finally, end the discussion with a positive phrase of encouragement and tell him that you love him and that he’s your pride and you are most thankful to God for him.
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Eschool is a brilliantly futuristic product that will end the woes of all the worrisome mothers and help build stronger, closer, always connected relationship between the parent and child. The disasters this application can help avoid can be innumerable. So, let’s cheers to smarter parenting and safer travel to school through this app.